Children with special needs

Be My Parent features about children with special needs.

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An amazing capacity to heal
Playing and acting out their story can be an important part of recovery for children in care who have experienced loss and trauma.

Helping your child ‘unlearn’
What can you do to help your child ‘unlearn’ the behaviours they have had to develop to survive?

Together in time
Joe was only four when Ruth and Ed adopted him, but the neglect and trauma he had experienced in his young life had left him angry and hurt. They received additional support to help care for their son in the form of music therapy.

Love isn’t always enough…
Ann, a Child and Adolescent Consultant Psychiatrist, explains some of the support available from Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) to help children manage their behaviours and emotions.

Living with children with attachment issues
Here, some adopters who have had to help their children deal with attachment issues share some of the difficult moments they experienced, and some of the rewards too.

Attachment issues in adoption and foster care
All children who are looked after, whether they are being placed with a permanent foster or adoptive family, will experience some difficulties around attachment.

Ways to deal with attachment issues: Helping your child build trust
Pointers for helping a child manage their feelings, behaviours and how to build trust.

Providing a secure base for troubled children
Attachment is at the heart of family life and at the heart of adoption and fostering. Looked after children have had to cope with difficult relationships in their birth families and they bring their complex coping strategies into their new families.

Believe in yourself
Single carer Karen has adopted three children affected by parental substance misuse.

Invisible scars: growing up in a family misusing alcohol or drugs
What is it like for children to see their parents using drugs or drinking heavily every day?

Prenatal exposure to drugs and alcohol
Dr Florence Merredew, Health Group Development Officer for BAAF, describes the effects of parental drug and alcohol misuse on children´s development.

Raising awareness
Fourteen-year-old Rebecca has Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD). Here, her adoptive mother talks about the challenges she faces at secondary school and beyond.

Hi I'm Rebecca
Rebecca, aged 14, explains how foetal alchol syndrome affects her life.

Look behind the label
Carol, a mature, black single adopter originally fostered Laquayah, an 'older' child, before adopting her.

Last updated: 01 September 08

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