What is direct and indirect (letterbox) contact?
Some adopted or fostered children have a level of contact with their birth family.
Research has shown that for many children who are adopted or permanently fostered, some form of contact between the child and their birth parents, siblings, other relatives and significant others can be beneficial. When proposing any arrangements for contact, the child’s agency will need to consider whether it is in the best interests of the child.
The most common form of contact is indirect contact (often called letterbox contact), where letters or cards are exchanged between the child, adopters/foster carers and birth relatives, perhaps once or twice a year, or more often. This is usually arranged through the child’s agency. Other contact arrangements may include face-to-face meetings once a year or more frequently. This is known as direct contact, and may include a meeting in a neutral area such as a park or restaurant.
Children who need permanent fostering are usually involved in more regular contact with their birth families. Permanently fostered children’s birth relatives may visit them in their foster home, if appropriate. It is important that direct contact is properly planned and managed in a way that meets the child’s needs. You should discuss any concerns with your social worker.
Before making an adoption order, the court has a duty to consider whether there should be arrangements for contact between the child and their birth family. The views and wishes of all those involved will be taken into consideration but the best interests of the child are always the priority. Adoptive parents are not under any legal obligation to agree to contact, but are advised to follow the recommendations of the court and the social workers.
Contact arrangements between each child and their birth family will vary depending on the child’s individual circumstances, and may vary over time.
Have you seen the Be My Parent features on contact?
Last updated: 11 December 07
